When Half-Time Became a Mirror: Bad Bunny, Language, and Identity

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I tuned into the halftime show expecting a spectacle—but what I found stopped me in my tracks. Bad Bunny took the stage, singing in his native Spanish, and the reactions that followed felt eerily familiar. In this episode I share how those reactions opened a door to memory: the voices of my Puerto Rican relatives, the pride of an island that has served and sacrificed under the flag, and the sting of being told your language or identity doesn’t belong in a place you call home.

This episode moves between the intimate and the historical. I recount family scenes—patriotic veterans, island kitchens, laughter and songs—then widen the lens to the long pattern of conquerors who silence native tongues. From boarding schools that punished Indigenous children to modern comments that dismiss someone’s right to sing in their own language, the thread is the same: control through erasure. But language isn’t just communication; it is where feeling and memory live. Hearing a familiar phrase can unlock a world of longing, belonging, and identity.

I admit my own biases—I never liked some of Bad Bunny’s earlier work—but watching him on that stage made me listen differently. I talk about how nostalgia and music can pierce us, how identity can be weaponized or reclaimed, and how small cruelties—off-color jokes, microaggressions—harden into patterns that shape who we become. Working in construction taught me the careless power of words; learning to recognize that hurt became part of my path toward being more awake and accountable.

From these stories I pull out a larger argument about leadership and stewardship. Real leadership, I suggest, starts at home and is practiced daily: paying attention, taking responsibility for the ways we speak and act, and choosing belonging over ideology. When we elevate labels and put ideology ahead of humanity, we let others define us. But when we root ourselves in dignity and empathy, we build communities where everyone has a voice—whether they sing it in Spanish, English, or any other language.

Join me as I trace the moments that made me reconsider language, nationality, and what it means to be American. This episode is part personal memoir, part cultural meditation, and part call to action: learn from the past, stop repeating its harms, and show up each day as the kind of leader who protects the dignity of others. Thank you for listening to The Resilient Philosopher—this is Dantes, reminding you to always show up for yourself.